As Ive written elsewhere though I have a " one sided" Cold War with the Big(gest) B of all (Im sure he doesnt even know I exist lest that Im taking away my "loyalties") ...khair, I should stop writing such long sentences...so he quotes his father and there is much to it I should ask all of us to take as our "litany"...Im using his translation:
"Man ka ho to acchha. Man ka na ho to zyada acchha !”
If things happen according to what you wish. It is good.
If things do not happen according to what you wish. Then it is even better.